Paul- Your bump in the road could have been much worse. As I read your posts I noticed a lot of little positives. Do you notice them? She may have been caught off guard, but did not dismiss you. And she did chat with you. And, she told you to be careful driving.

Remember in the DR book that these are mini goals and we can celebrate to ourselves when these are met. Continue with your n/c and GAL. Taking a different way to the store is a great detachment step for you.

You should take a step back from your sitch and give yourself a pat on the back for your excellent progress so early on.

You are doing only weeks in what it has taken many of us (especially me) months to do. Good job. Remember: No contact smile


Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014