It's Time to Sing a Brand New Song

[Mimi00]

.... *sigh* H just called to explain why the account over drafted...and said that he plans to take his name off of the accounts in several weeks. I told him I have no connections to the account so it would be smarter to just do it my way.... (all his automatic bills payments and direct deposits are connected, I have no ties to those accounts as I changed my direct deposit already)

He then went on to say he visited a friend in Georgia (so I was right about him going on a trip) who was unfortunately paralyzed recently.... then he met up with another "friend" and that friend's mother wanted the address and name of the paralyzed guy so she could send him cards and pray for him.... H said the mother reminded him of my mother. *sigh*

I'm assuming, but I'm pretty sure it was his X-girlfriend and her mom (he use to live with her and her mom).

Then he went on to talk about his own mom and how he's detaching from the unhealhty relationship he has with her. How she's now homeless, but he doesn't care, he knows it's from her poor actions she displays time and time again (something i told him to do years ago, he always put her needs first and gave her money etc...but NOW he's had the revelation for himself)

Then he went on to brag he's been "smoke free" for four months now (something he lied to me about before marriage, then after marriage when I found out he was a smoker and he said he wouldn't stop)

I felt like crying especially when he said the woman reminded him of my mom as she has no issues going up to people praying for them and encouraging them...*sigh*

I tried several times to end the convo, but he kept talking.

He asked how I was... I kept it brief....said I was ok...same old stuff, nothing much new. He asked about the dog.

Then he asked what times am I available through out the day b/c I work at night.

I said on and off, no specific times.... why??? (because i assume he's asking b/c he wants to call and talk about the dissolution)

He said no specific reason, just wanted to know what was a good time to call in the future. (sure)

This is the first time we've had more than a 2 min conversation in the last 2 months.

I can't wait till he no longer has to call me.
I'm emotional and shaky now. So annoying.