Bright and tiger thank you for your thoughts. I agree that I should continue doing what I am doing. The challenge is within me... Have my changes really stuck even with h?

Bright I think outside pressure was meant as OW by my mom. H did say that at one point he was getting a lot of pressure from his sister and brother and

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home