BA, your XW is a f*cking idiot! I can't believe she didn't contact the cops when she found out that he was driving from NY to VA. And I also can't believe she didn't tell YOU first. I have long hated the couched phrase of "I didn't want to hurt you" or "I didn't want to burden you" blah blah. To me that really meant "I knew you'd be mad and I was hoping that I'd get off scot free".
I hope the cops read HER the riot act.
In total agreement with you Betsey! She really thinks she was only doing what she thought was best by not letting me know about it. I suspect she thought she had scared the pervert off and the whole issue would just go away and she wouldn't have to deal with me finding out about it. However once he returned to New York he continued to stay in contact with D15 that's when she decided to contact the police and let me know about the issue. It p*sses me off that she kept it from me at first and then when the contact continued and she had to tell me about the situation and that she had contacted the police, she STILL kept this information about him coming down here and her talking to him to herself and didn't let me know. My life is way too complicated right now...
