3-I know you're struggling right now. I think M had some good points about how to view these bumps in the road. I know what you mean about reaching your limit of H crap. Sometimes the double standards take a toll.

I hope your flight isn't delayed. I know you will take time for yourself. I agree that a month of your Sundays off will be a good time for you to get some perspective. I continue a lot of those types of traditions for the kids, too. Unfortunately, there are days that I feel like I make these sacrifices so that my kids don't have to hurt but H gets to have no consequences for his behavior. Ugh..

BTW: What ever came of him wanting to move into his own apartment?

Thinking of you

Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014