maybe a bit off the edge?

[dingo]

1) she doesn't want to do any of the fun things we used to do with me anymore.

Did she say why?

She did not say why.

2) she loves me but not enough to do the things I am asking of her.

That's the trump card right there.

This has been the case since BD. Isnt it essentially what ILYBINILWY means?

W: stepping back for now. ok?
M: yes, thats fine. Happy Birthday tomorrow.

so slightly good news but in the grand scheme of things, this changes nothing.

Does she mean she's stepping back from you, the OM, or the D papers? You are correct, it should not change anything for you...but I'm curious as how it's good news.

it means from the D papers. On Sunday she was pretty adamant that we progress right away. I had asked her to step back because we had had an emotional/frustrating couple of days. Primarily because I have not yet learned to not let her push my buttons.

not really sure what it means, if anything, concerning the OM.

for what its worth (a fart in a windstorm i am guessing) - after i wished her happy birthday she wrote back "thanks honey"