Hi labug, I have a question about an item you helpednme with. You asked if my spouse felt. "Safe " that she felt heard. Is it fair to tell my W that I understand this and that it is anooint of growth? Or do my actions in future just speak for themselves. Its kind of a big thing to realize that she may not have felt heard.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14