"I am not saying she is crazy, I am saying that she never communicated with me since day one,"
And you lied to her also. Both of you have personal issues to work out. However, you can only fix yours and not have expectations that the other person will fix theirs.
Your last post doesn't make any sense. I have no idea what you are trying to get at. Are you typing on a phone?
"I can go or not go to her play but life its more simple...if you want somebody to go, somebody who you think its important, you make sure to let them know one way or another,"
From what I'm understanding from your post, you're saying that you'd only go if your W or her friends told you to. You totally didn't understand why I said you should just go. I said you should just do it because you said you never supported her in her acting and even called it an "obsession" with her. That's her passion. Even if it sounds crazy to you, you don't diss your spouse's passion.
Go to show that you support her passion.
If you feel that you have to be asked to go, then you've fallen into the trap of "expecting" her to ask you. In the end you're going to end up in the house alone while another guy shows his support of her. YOU have the power to change that. But it sounds like you won't.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
