It's never just one person's fault, however, it seems like just overnight you went from working on yourself to being your W's therapist and saying she's crazy.
You just spent the whole post on it and you're blameshifting, the same way your W is doing with you. AGAIN, I'm not saying that your W isn't also at fault, but you can't control that. You can only control you. Yet you are changing your perception whereby you expect your W has to go to therapy again. It doesn't work that way. That's you trying to control things again and it stems from your insecurity.
You just gave yourself an out to not go to her play which she told you was an important thing to her. Ask yourself if doing that actually helps your situation or hurts it.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.