I am new here, I am glad I found this place. Feel like it is just what I need. It has already given me a new direction to go in which is a healthy one. I do want to save my marriage, but know that the rules are good for me even if this is not possible. Looking for guidance, and hope.

together for 11yrs
married for 7 1/2

dropped the bomb jan 12th 2014

My Thread
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...722#Post2424722

Had to repost to add my thread


Me:36
Her:35
together 11yrs
M 7 1/2yrs
lived together 10yrs
2dogs 2cats
Mortgage on a house

bomb dropped 01/12/14
Separate bedrooms/W stays here some nights
I want to stay married