Paul- for what it's worth, I do think it was ant least a baby step positive that she made idle chit- chat on the phone. She totally could have cut the convo short, but she didn't. Accept it as a baby step and BACK OFF!!! :)I'm willing to bet she'll start to wonder where you went...
We've been in this for the same short amount of time, but I'm unusually good at predicting behavior (I like to lie to myself sometimes, though...)
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5