Feeling a little down today. Family funeral and it has been very exhausting. I seen how wonderful the husband loved his wife and she was taken prematurely from him. They spoke of her being his princess and the wonderful things they had/did together with their children.
If my W had died one day before BD the same things would have been said at her funeral. I was completely clueless about how unhappy she was. Don't look at others and wish you could model their R, because their R is probably not the nirvana you think it is. Make the best of yours and leave them to theirs!