Me: Just triple checking you don't want the cats. W: What is your plan with them? Me Someone on Facebook was gonna have them but backed out. The cat refuge is going to contact me when they have space in the next week or so. W: Bring them Friday. If they settle I'll keep them but if not you'll have to take them back on the Sunday & they can go to the cat place. W: And just to be clear I've not appreciated you playing on my good nature about the cat's. Are you having the boys for a week on the 1st may? I need a break! Me: If they don't settle it would be much kinder for them to go to the refuge in (W's town) and not have to make the trip back. Me: Not until I know where I am financially. W: Erm no. I will not be taking them to a refuge in (my town). If they do not settle you take them back otherwise dont bother. Me: I will just wait for the refuge. W: What was the point in contacting me then! Me: To see if you wanted them. W: Just stop contacting me!!! Sick to death of your games. Always your way or nothing. W: You know I don't want them going to the refuge but I have a million things going on in my life right now and the last thing I need is you poor excuse of a man f*cking with my head. W: From this moment on do NOT contact me ever again except in regards to the kids.
I know I shouldn't be contacting her but the cat thing isn't reversalable so I wanted to be sure. It blows my mind that she would rather the cats take another long car journey just to go to the refuge there.
Got the first draft of the letter from the L today. Gave them some notes as some things were now incorrect (like she hasn't sold her car).
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14