You may have to man up and just do what is in the kids best interest for the kids. I know it [censored] and will probably cause a fight, but the kids are number 1...period. If you are worried about her fighting in court about, talk with your lawyer. In reality though, I can't see any judge giving you problems over getting the kids into therapy. It might actually go the other way in that the judge asks the X why she didn't support it.
Have you asked around the school to see if they have inhouse counseling? My kids go to a therapist through the school (during school hours, once a week)and it has been a godsend. I don't have to pay a dime and the kids have an unbiased person to talk with outside the situation. It does take time for them to open up as my son is finally talking about his mother after seeing the therapist for over a year.
