WADad's tale of Woe

[melissag]

wadad, sorry you are here, and that you are going through a rough time.

I don't have time for a long response right now, but wanted to help you out with refraining from pressuring your W to make a decision. Right now she clearly does not know what she wants. If you force her to decide, what do you think her decision will be? I am guessing it will be D. Remind yourself of that every time you feel the urge to talk to her about your M or her decision. No answer is better than the answer you don't want.

Hang in there, and make sure you are following the 37 rules!!