A Voyage Into The MLCer Mind

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Wonka, I just happened upon this about 40 minutes ago, so first of all, a belated Happy Birthday to you! But I must tell you I think I learned more valuable information about MLCers in those 40 minutes then in the 3 months I have been on this site trying to dissect/glean this knowledge from others. However, it doesn't replace the valuable experience of 'meeting' the people I have corresponded and commisserated with who are unfortunately in this situation as well.

From all of us, a huge THANK YOU for providing this question and answer forum. I, too, look forward to all the insight I hope you can provide us in the near future. So keep it up! This should be saved somewhere on this site as a GREAT source of information and comfort for those LBS's who need to understand how much it really isn't about or because of us.

So thank you for helping me gain more clarity and compassion for what my H is going through even though he will be filing for D any day now.

Here's a question - does 'pride' factor into an MLCer not returning to their spouse even if they think they might be making a mistake by divorcing?