Mr Bond is right pal. Stfu. Trust me, it doesn't work the other way. This tactic is all you got now. She made clear she won't talk about it. I know how very hard it is, but you must resist. Your logic is correct, but it is not her logic. She has her own. We love ya brother. We have been there. R talk won't work. I did not stfu. It is so counterintuitive but it is all you can do. The R talk isn't working and is backfiring.

M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
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BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.