On to Divorce and still litigating...new life.

[FloydMan]

Ya, no way will they meet anyone unless they are ready and unless it is a very special person. I also believe they can use some professional counselling. Their mom has not been supportive of that idea so the kids refuse to go. I spoke with the counsellor and her thoughts are that they would be afraid to say anything negative about either of us, and my exW likely worried what they will say. Between a rock and a hard place on that one. I had asked my exW last night if she would speak on the phone or over a coffee about how we can work on together in getting them help and align on a united front for a game plan that is consistent messaging. Today she declined and said we'd revisit the counselling idea in a few months. This after her telling d15 she thinks d11 is bordering on depression and struggles with her. Classic her...sweeping things under the carpet until they pop up more problematic later on.