Originally Posted By: PatientMan
What is there to discuss? It sounds like there is currently nothing that can be done, so I would leave it alone.-PM
I guess nothing. My mind was more in the fix it (husband) mode.

On a side note I've been engaging her a bit more the last 2 days and it's going well. Just talking and asking questions about her, her day, the gym. Nothing serious Just casual conversation and I'm keeping it all about her. I also end it first and on a positive note. Its only been two days but I've noticed she hasn't been as short or annoyed with me.

I've been very positive lately and it feels great. Even when I'm not feeling it or she or the boys are being negative I immediately turn it around and start being positive. It's tough sometimes but I'm trying to live positive in the hear and now In the moment.

I mean this is it, right now, this is life, it's happening and I want to be a part of it.

The power of positive. I'm liking it.


Me: 39 W: 33
M: 9 years
T: 10 years
S7 S10
BD 10/19/13
W Filed 11/25/13
EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA)
WAW moved out 3/15/14