Don't know what to think

[T-boned]

Still haven't heard from SIL. She can be a lot like her brother.

Neighbors who have been rather Switzerland about this whole thing said they don't even know who H is any more and are ready to give it up with him. Guess he was sort of manic and rude to one of them when he visited our house to pick up some stuff and they went down to say hi. H looked at them like he was highly annoyed they were there and was nervous I was going to come home any minute. I'm ashamed to say it but it makes me feel good in that this validates some of what I see and feel.

Also, therapist who knows him well, feels as though he may be heading for a crash. May be something he needs to do.

I have such mixed feelings now . . .