Paul-Been there done that. I can relate. Sometimes it seems like it shouldn't be this hard. Why wouldn't she accept an offer to help from you like she would anyone else? I guess we don't get to know the answers to these questions.
But, I bet you and I can agree on one thing: It feels better to n/c than to contact and be rejected.
Unfortunately, sometimes we learn the hard way. Over and over. But I have confidence that you and the rest of us trying to save our M will get to the point where n/c is ok. We will be ok. I know you'll start over and you'll be stronger this time
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014
