Paul-Your observation about the success stories seems to be the same conclusion I've drawn. Tough pill to swallow, though. Truly letting go is scary and emotional. But, I think it's something we have to do so we're not stuck in this mess. We need it for us and if our M work out because of it...then bonus.
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014