Paul-Your observation about the success stories seems to be the same conclusion I've drawn. Tough pill to swallow, though. Truly letting go is scary and emotional. But, I think it's something we have to do so we're not stuck in this mess. We need it for us and if our M work out because of it...then bonus.


Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014