During all of that, she asked how I was doing(surprisingly I was in a better mood than she was). I said I have a million emotions going on. I have enough tools to figure it out. I swear she loves the drama that comes with me being hurt even though she says she cares and doesn't want to hurt me.
I think at some level although they don't want us anymore, they still want us to pursue as it's an ego boost for them. So yeah, she doesn't want to hurt you but at the same time she wants to know that her leaving hurts you. Just project PMA and if she asks how you're feeling/ doing just say "GREAT!" If she pushes for more info tell her about your GAL efforts. Project to her that you are going to be fine whether with or without her.
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She tells me he is fb friend's with a very close friend of mine/family. I resist the urge to say anything regarding him. She just says small world eh?
I'm mind reading here, but it really does feel like she's baiting me into arguments.
Yeah, that sounds like baiting. If not for an argument then at least for an emotional response. She's trying to make you jealous. WAS's can revert back to a junior high mentality pretty quickly. LOL!
I can totally see her acting like a junior high kid. I was browsing through my newsfeed on fb(man I hate fb but use it for other purposes), when I saw her latest post. She says she is feeling special.... What a great day. Man that irritates me and I know that it shouldn't. She usually posts that her day was great when a client does something nice to her. This time there was no mention of a client. Argh. It's so hard to get the notion out that this new guy is gonna sweep her off her feet. I really have to keep reminding myself that the beginning of all new relationships people will do all kinds of "special" things.
I need my anger to come out a bit more and use that anger positively.
Me-35 Com law-28 S-3 T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu 1st bu- 2/2012 Rec-4/2013 2nd bu-10/2013 IC-2 yrs(anger issues) MC- 5 mnths-fail OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14 New OM ~10/4/14
