bent not broken

[willbwell]

I will take my time to respond.
I will let him drive the conversation...

Just wish he could show some compassion to me as I have to him. I know, I know...

Just wish we could have a reasonable adult conversation. I will not show anger. I will show empathy and validate.

Wish I could ask and get an answer to how he justifies me doing everything for the kids.
Busting, have you had that convo with your h?

h is taking d to gymnastics tonight. I will be here when he picks up but won't be when he drops off. he will leave her with s17. she will get herself to bed.

thank you all for your responses. I try and put that anxiety away. I know it is not about me