Hey Kate, I know that was a really big decision for you. And you are right, we all get there when we do - in our own time, in our own way.
There is a certain feeling, isnt there, when you make a decision like this? While there is an element of sadness, there is also a resounding sense of peace.
No one knows what the future holds - and it may hold you and him.
In the meantime, you have shown him and yourself the ultimate act of love. The allowing of you both to walk your journey with the hope that whatever the outcome, you will be ok.
I am happy for you, Kate, that you feel at peace. And hoping so much that your future holds whatever you wish.