artsy,
THANK YOU! You made me feel so much better about this. I guess it is a good thing that I am at the point that I would rather not see him and have that sinking feeling after, than see him no matter what, whenever he wants! It is progress! I appreciate the encouragement. I have to read your thread, I will visit it now smile

Groov,
You know, that posting got messed up but it just repeated that I was your hero 3 times so it didn't bother me any!! Just kidding, but thank you for that! I have taken great strength from your postings and I consider it the reason we are all here. To help one another. I really appreciate your encouragement as well!


Me:35
BF:36
Together 4.5 years lived together 2 years moved out 8-13
still "together" but not together.
Confused.
D11, D13 (from 1st marriage)