artsy, THANK YOU! You made me feel so much better about this. I guess it is a good thing that I am at the point that I would rather not see him and have that sinking feeling after, than see him no matter what, whenever he wants! It is progress! I appreciate the encouragement. I have to read your thread, I will visit it now
Groov, You know, that posting got messed up but it just repeated that I was your hero 3 times so it didn't bother me any!! Just kidding, but thank you for that! I have taken great strength from your postings and I consider it the reason we are all here. To help one another. I really appreciate your encouragement as well!
Me:35 BF:36 Together 4.5 years lived together 2 years moved out 8-13 still "together" but not together. Confused. D11, D13 (from 1st marriage)