Back to previous question not to 'show' her how I've changed just let her see it for herself, easier said than done her it's 'only talk' approach is starting to get under my skin; but I'm not showing any emotions. That's all I/we do is talk or go to the kids events. She says 'no actions' have been shown, how can I show actions if W is so focused on the OM!
I'm not sure if you misunderstand what we mean.....or if we misunderstand what you are saying. Can you elaborate a little more about what she is referring to as "no actions have been shown and what you mean by "that's all we do is talk"?
Are you referring to you not being able to show physical affection and complaining about nothing more between you but talking? When she says no actions have been shown, is she referring to "changes" she expects you to make?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
