Me 15 months on - standing - detaching

[hotwheelsaust]

Wonka, thank you for the kind words.
Normally I am a person who once interested in a subject goes full on about that item. I will buy lots of books, read up on the Internet and spend a lot of time being involved in it.
With DB I did the same, but the outcome or timeline, as you said, is so much slower, and I mess it up.
So when I have to wait at least 48 hours to reply to the W, I struggle with it, wanting to reply asap.
But I am getting there. I am learning to wait and take my time.

I do try things with the boys, offer some outings, but should offer some better choices. Will see what can be done. The only hard thing is youngest son works shift over the week, and is given his times/roster with only a few days notice. So very hard to plan any future activity.

As per our talk a week or so ago. I will still text the W this coming Tuesday, being her first day back at school. I was going to text something along the lines of:

"W, hope it is a great school year for you. Wishing you a class of beautiful children, if not, then I am sure you will make them into a beautiful class. HWA. "

Good/bad?