maybe a bit off the edge?

[MrBond]

" It was often at this point that they were finally able to detach and things started to turn around. One thing that a few of them did was to take a step back and look at the entire situation from beginning to present and really get a better idea of where their situation is."

You read DB/DR right? It mentions detachment right off the bat and to also review your ENTIRE M history to evaluate what to do. What you don't seem to mention is that the most important thing to do is CHANGE. If you don't change personally, nothing will.