trying to stay focused. H spending most of his time with the GF n only sees kids when they do something with them together. I assume she must question why he doesn't see them so he has an obligatory visit every once in a while. When I get angry at him he just tells me I am jealous because he has someone and is so happy. I'm not jealous. I just don't understand how you can desert your family because you weren't getting enough attention. The new gf has not two but 3 kids. She works full time in the city which is over an hour from her home and in a demanding job. He is two hours from her and has to drive back and forth to her house. And, my S said she has 2 ex husbands to deal with regarding her kids. why would he think he will get more attention from her? Just another thing that irritates me. Especially since he has not given me money yet and basically spends no time with our kids. Just venting today!!
me-42 H-41 S-12 S-8 M-15 yr f/o bout OW- 11-29-12 H moved out 10-31-13 Filed for divorce 12-27-13 D- 10-21-14
