PatientMan - 6th Edition - Acting Divorced

[PatientMan]

I feel your pain, PM. I miss my daughter so much. It is undoubtedly the hardest part of this process. Everyone I speak with tells me, "just be strong for her. She needs you". They say, "you're a great Dad, so she will always have you in her life", that sort of thing. While that is comforting, I worry about the future connection I will have. How will things change when I move on with someone else. How will OM play a role in my relationship with D. Those are things I worry about 24/7. I assume you worry too. how can we not? We would have to be completely dense not to worry about those things.

The good news is, we do have control over this part. Just be a strong Dad for your girls, stay involved, stay positive. I have made huge efforts in myself, to separate Wife from Daughter. It has made my interactions with both of them more positive. Co-parenting is just as difficult, (if not more so), than maintaining the marriage. It takes a lot of work and a lot of tongue biting, but I honestly believe in the long run it will pay off. I wish you luck, PM. You really impress me as the type of Dad that will make it!

Thanks suckerpunch.

I will give them my all, I just want to give them more, what I feel they deserve. I know you know what I mean.

And I will push the thought of an OM tucking them in at night, helping them with their homework and such. I'm not ready to deal with that mentally right now. I'm typically a very cool, collected, and calm person, but I am calm like a bomb.

-PM