Hi Job... thanks for this post.. it reasonates for me as well.
There is no point in asking questions... the answers are like "flavor of the day". And that they feel suffocated (my h constantly describes feelings of wanting to run away) due to responsiblilities. So, since I don't want him to shut down... I STFU.. alot. WHEN, he opens up... he is just as surprized as I am to hear what he says. MLC at its finest, I guess!!
Yes, they are SOLELY focused on themselves and reason away any practicality/reality. Its ME ME ME... all the way home!
Willb, no point in giving those letters just yet. Much like mine, he isnt ready to "hear" those things. One day, I pray to be able to talk with him normally again.
meanwhile, take care!
Magic!
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
