"I also was kind of close in the communication with her,"
This is a big one. Why didn't you communicate with her?
"my wife its also a person obsessed with becoming an actress and she never wanted to negotiate for how long would she tried that for,"
Why would she have to "negotiate" with you? If that was her passion, then you should have supported her. For many people, they just want to know that they have their spouse's support, unconditionally. It seems like you really didn't support her or at least she felt you didn't.
"she told me only that once she became an actress making money she would buy a house with me, so I couldn't stand that part of ok boy wait for me to make my dream come true and then I will get those things with you...."
Why not? Sounds like you were being self centered because it wasn't a goal of YOURS. Marriage isn't just about you. It's about the goal of your spouse as well.
"I guess we have different goals and now she needs also to see that and if those goals are more important than being in a relationship with me."
They weren't more important than you, but let's face it. Why would she want to stay with someone who doesn't open up, lies and doesn't support her? Why would you want to stay with someone like that?
If you REALLY read DR, then you know that YOU have to change first. Doesn't sound like you have at all. THAT IS why she's not looking back.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
