I acknowledge that my xh always had the behavior that he shows now and shared my experience and realization. There are others here, and more to follow, that will believe their WAS is simply in MLC and will ignore the behavior that has persisted for years. It's hard to face the truth.

Wonka, every person is precious and has inherent worth. I don't know who your comments were directed at, but if it was me, that was unfair and far from what I've written.

It is terribly sad when people suffer from whatever it is. However, those of us that are harmed by the behavior, whether a temporary phase or not, have the right to be safe. We're precious, too.