Hiya Bug! Yes. xOW and my wife have known each other for 17 years...(funny how it took them soooo long to figure out they were meant to be together. ROFL!) So xOW was a friend of mine too. I met her and a few months after I met my W, 13 years ago. She was close enough of a friend that we had our own "phone calls" and "pictures" together. People always say the OW or the AP didn't break any vows... don't be angry at them. But I'm the luckiest girl in the world! My W's AP was my friend, whom aside from my marriage, woman to woman, friend to friend, hurt me very deeply.

But to answer your question... Yup! She might drag this on forever... or try to. She HATES to "lose." She tries very hard to be the most desirable woman in the room. And remember I knew her... well... I guess that's the only plus side. I know what I'm up against. The Art of War. LOL!!!

I also know her well enough to anticipate her next move... jealousy. I predict that she (xOW) will have a new paramour within the next 60 days and attempt to evoke a response from my W. If she does... Perfect!

So as for me: I just read all of the syllabus' for my three courses this semester. Oh boy! I'm busy! But I'm so excited!!!


Me(F):40 WAW:44
T:13yrs M:9yrs
BD:2/12 (I saw a text)
ILYBINILWY: 5/12
PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11)
S:2/13
Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13
W moves home to R: 10/13