Ahhhh- me too! Paul, our separation dates are similar an I've been told the anger is normal. I just had this convo with my IC yesterday. He said it forces us into action- propels us forward because we are NOT okay with the status quo-

Then I get angry that I'm angry because I'm not an angry person... Lol

So let it happen! Use the energy. I asked my IC for a fast forward button yesterday so I can get to detachment sooner. He said no. Lol

We'll be better for it in the end!!!


Me: 39
H: 45
Second marriage for both
H left 12/2013
M:4 T:5.5