Mount Everest. STILL Forbidding. Aloof...

[willbwell]

we can't go back. only forward. I too am sad at the lack of relationship between my h and the kids.
the boys won't tell their dad how they really feel because to do so would hurt their hearts even more. IDK, maybe they will someday. As for now, they take the little bits that he offers... dinner out, a movie

I too feel like screaming at h Don't you see what you are missing??
Don't you get it that the boys want interaction with you??

I will say, my relationship with the kids has always been good, but has become even stronger since BD.
I am so lucky to have such great kids!
They are the prize.

I am glad you went about your day the day he visited. I have pondered that before... life has to go on.