Thanks Lou! Yeah - you know I think its the hardest thing to change the way you think. Now I have learnt to recognise the little trigger inside me and I can stop myself and ask - how else can I look at this. I realised after reading the DR that my intentions as good as most of them were - just were simply interpreted incorrectly from my H. So it is exactly the same the opposite way round, so I keep telling myself 'it's not as bad as you think it is''your interpreting it worse'
Although they are being quite nasty now - they didn't get there on there own. Thanks for dropping by! I'll come for another visit soon!
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Never allow kindness be misinterpreted for weakness. Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself.