On to Divorce and still litigating...new life.

[FloydMan]

I see what you are saying pal. I don't care much for her really. The only part that cares or wishes her well is that she is well and affects the kids positively. I have to be around as I need to know they are okay. Right now they are not. I can tell. So can others, their friends parents, aunts and uncles etc. especially d11. She seems so sad. Especially at Christmas when their mom took off for 11 days without them or telling them. She cancelled her trip with them and went on her own anyway, I am trying to get them to a counsellor but they are refusing. D15 says she is worried about her sister and asked me if she is depressed. I don't want d15 carrying that weight of worry either. That was a heavy conversation. Heavier than last week when d15 said I deserve someone nice and said she be okay if I dated someone nice. Wow...that was out of the blue. I have kept dates very private and only when I don't have them. I love my babies.