It's the final countdown...

[wishing, hoping]

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2424378&page=1

Last thread linked above. Inching towards a final destination. At least I hope it is.

H signed the PMSA. My attorney confirmed this fact for me today. Now it needs to be signed by the GAL and the judge. My attorney needs to look it over and make sure H didn't change what he signed from what we signed. It needs to be the same agreement. Now H wouldn't do anything like that would he???

So now it's on to the financials. This is really gonna get ugly. But the financials are black and white. They are what they are. And now that H can't hold the kids over my head I am just going to let it play out.

I did get a call from the dentist office regarding S's ortho bill. H hasn't paid it even though he is ordered to pay it. The office knows they can work with me and asked me for a resolution. H told them the bill was a variable expense and I was liable for half. I told the office I would see what was going on and get back to them. I called the attorney to see what legally the answer is. Right now H is required to pay it and if I pay it he will just dump it on me. But I feel bad for the office because they do not need to be put in the middle. But H hasn't even made a payment plan with them.

And the city property taxes have not been paid. They gave me the amount I still need to confirm with the mortgage company how much the escrow check is and make sure it has not been cashed. I don't think H can cash it without my signature and without the city's signature. But if he doesn't get them paid soon we can't claim it on the taxes and that's not right. Then our return will not be as large and he will file an amended return and pocket the difference.

He is really a snake in the grass. So much for working together with this guy.

WH

[LoisB]

He SIGNED!!!!!!!!!

[wishing, hoping]

It's not over until the fat OW sings. When the GAL and the attorney tell me it's done, then I will breathe a sigh of relief.

But I need to stay on top of things and be prepared. The fight has just begun. But now at least H cannot use the kids against me.

WH

[LoisB]

Awwww, the fat O'l Ho sang a lil. :-)

Allow yourself a little victory dance (in the bathroom, silently, with no alcohol involved).

And, I hope he DID cash the escrow check. Forged your signature. And, gets charged with financial misconduct. D-Bag.\

You're reaching the finish line.

Love,
Heather

[wishing, hoping]

Thanks Heather.

I hope he gets busted on all the lousy low down miserable things he has pulled and continues to pull. Now he has the OW calling and texting his family and telling them to leave H alone. Poor H. I hope his OW can protect him from the big bad people.

Sorry dealing with a case of the angrys right now. Working though if.

WH

[LoisB]

I think you've earned it.

Use the energy to pack. :-)

[wishing, hoping]

I've packed almost everything. I'm out of boxes and room. I have tried to get a hold of the landlord to get the key, but we keep crossing paths. Frustrating!!

I'm exhausted. It's seems to be taking forever. Trying to take one step at a time.

WH

[job]

WH,
He finally signed and that's one step in the right direction. Continue to move ahead w/your packing and I know you are trying to catch up w/the landlord so that you can start moving things over.

As for the unpaid bills...continue to inform your lawyer and allow him to handle it w/your h. Your h is playing games right now and wants to portray himself as a poor man.

Everything will fall into place very soon. Stay positive and keep your eyes on the financials and the finish line.

[Wonka]

WH,

Boy, boy...H is in a real pickle and the judge will call him out soon enough. Wish I was a fly on the wall inside the courtroom....maybe I can learn how to shape shift! LOL.

Soon you'll be the mistress of your own domain in a week...onward! The tension will definitely dissipate once you and the kids are in your own place.

[wishing, hoping]

I feel like the walls are caving in. I feel claustrophobic. So much to do, so little time to do it.

Still no call from the landlord. The last message he left was for me to come and get the key from him, but I am not sure where to locate him. I have lots of people who want to help. I am very blessed with friends. But if I can't get in to the unit then it does me no good. Ugh.

I hate Tuesdays. I know tomorrow H will be back in full force. I am just dreading it. And I can't avoid him because I have so much stuff to cart. I can't reserve a truck until I have the key. It does me no good to load up a truck and have no key to get in.

I sound like a broken record. I'm tired and dreading this final weekend living with H. I am kind of sad and glad and mad all mixed into one.

I am also worried that if I forget anything then I will have forfeited any rights to it.

Trying to breathe.

WH