bent not broken

[willbwell]

after reading some posts and thinking about my own sit. I have done nothing different.
H said we were on parallel paths. h thinks we were too busy to notice and he just grew apart. I was doing all the kid stuff. H was working.
I am still doing all the kid stuff and h is still working.
The only difference is I no longer have his underlying support. and well there is the ow and the fact that he moved out and filed

I continue to be nice to h. I don't know status of ow. I don't ask.
he is cake eating in as far as he does get his freedom and gets to see the kids when it is convenient for him.

Perhaps it is time for me to think about a more permanent visitation schedule. it won't work though.
I don't want to rock the boat.
Nothing new on D and I seem content to stay in limbo.

Why does it have to be so dang hard?