Latest update, W had to drive oldest kid back up to college, I had already planned to take the other 2 snowmobiling (MLK, no school) then drive my D to gymnastics so I was at the house most of the day with the kids, W must trust me enough to be there without her bring present. Back to previous question not to 'show' her how I've changed just let her see it for herself, easier said than done her it's 'only talk' approach is starting to get under my skin; but I'm not showing any emotions. That's all I/we do is talk or go to the kids events. She says 'no actions' have been shown, how can I show actions if W is so focused on the OM! I'm trying to stay positive and also focus on myself but staying positive is hard when I feel her drifting away.
