KG, I had this same convo with my IC today. He kept telling me I'll know when I know. I agree, in some ways you think it would be easier to just throw in the towel because at least you would know what the next steps are!!!

But, as dingo so rightly pointed out, it most likely would just be a tactic to take away the pain. I think we all so desperately want the pain to go away!!

My IC insists I will be a better person for having gone through this... I just wish we had a fast forward button!!


Me: 39
H: 45
Second marriage for both
H left 12/2013
M:4 T:5.5