all she sees is everyone else happy and thats all she wants.
Ha! I remember when I was going through the post-BD trauma, going to lunch with my boss and thinking how nice it must be to have a great M like him with no worries in the world. Both girls grown and married, house paid for, cars paid for, W already through menopause, 3 Mexico vacations a year, etc. etc. 39 glorious years they've had. Then he got BD'd last week. When you really start talking to people you find out that very few of them are happy. It's amazing how many marriages are just barely scraping by, just waiting for one of the other to BD. A happy marriage takes LOTS of WORK by BOTH parties, and it almost never happens.
