ye21, I thought I would come over and see your sitch. You are very lucky, you have been a lot of good info from Flyonthewall and Mr Bond. Continue on the road with Sandi's 37 rules. Work on you.
It is a hard question, but I think Flyonthewall asked it earlier, is there any possibility of an OM? Considering the W is involved with theatre. I don't want you to think even worse about the sitch, but nearly in all of the cases on this forum, separation involved the WAS having an OM/OW in their lives.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.