My IC made it clear I can't do this until I'm detached, because H's response may not be what I want to hear and I need to be in a place where that won't delay MY forward movement or send me in to a spiral.
IC suggested this convo because H said he wants to work on R, but sometimes his actions do not match his words...sometimes they do, but there is a consistency lacking.
Either way, I'm a long way off from being detached, unfortunately I'm working on it, though! Full-speed ahead with my GAL!!!!!
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5