One baby step at a time...

[2ndTimeHurt]

2nd, so sorry you're going through this!! That sounds like a very painful conversation. But at least it's all out there now. If there's a small silver lining it's that your GF is secure enough in your R that she is willing to tell you about OM rather than taking the typical WAS cloak-and-dagger approach.

That's the one thing about her that I love. She is truthful.

She feels really comfortable with me. She's able to open up with me, more than anybody she knows. That's why I think she says she feels so negative and depressed only around me. Does that make sense? Sort of like a child who shows his parents his dark side but appears to be an angel around strangers. It really hurt when she said she is only negative and depressed around only me. I find that hard to believe and want to chalk it up to "don't believe and damn thing they say".

Thanks for replying as. That silver lining lifted me up a bit.