RT, wow. Just wow!

I admire you sooooo much. For lots of things, but today for the ability you have to be understanding and kind to your W, and at the same time the strength and self worth to know and stand up for what you need.

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I also told her that if she was not finished with that relationship and still felt the need to communicate with her that I was strong and could handle that. She could leave again if she wanted.


This blew me away!!

Wow. You weren't messing around when you decided to be the spouse that your W would be a fool to leave. smile


me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14