New to This - An English Man In Trouble

[Hadlee58]

Quick Update after the weekend:
My wife pulled me to one side on friday night for a bit of a heart to heart, she didnt tell me anything she hasnt said before and started off with the usual WAS 'spew', i validated my little socks off and she seemed to have calmed down by the end.
In essence - she has now admitted that she hasnt tried to work on things for the last 6-8 months and doesnt know how but that if she wanted to she would have to do something different and not just cling to the idea that it will get better in time, all she sees is everyone else happy and thats all she wants. She can still see all the bad (not so much of the good) and worries that it will just go back to how it was.
I basically kept my answers short as i didnt want to take over the conversation and replied that it must be tough on her and i am sure she will be able to come up with a solution to make herself happy, how difficult all the bad times must have been for her and only she can decide what the future holds for her.
She ended the conversation with that she wants to decide in the next couple of days what she is going to do one way or the other.
She has been down with the flu all weekend which has been tough on her, i have done my best to make sure she is ok and well looked after without going into my fixer mode and made sure i had plenty of time for me too.

Not a bad weekend in some ways and you know i feel great