my wife left, but still lives with me #2/continued

[tough spot]

So I go to bed last night and say 'good night' to my wife. She responds with 'good night' but with a tone. Based on earlier today and that response i ask 'why are you angry with me'. She responds that she 'isn't angry with me...sigh'.

So I ask if she wants to talk about it and she says 'no thankyou'.
So, I went to sleep. Now that is an exciting end to a loaded conversation!

We have a mutual couple as friends. I know that my wife talks to just the wife of the other couple about us. I have picked up that their relationship isn't going awesome as well, and that that wife talks to my wife about their relationship. I have a call into the husband for us going out and doing something.

I wonder if that makes her nervous. I was originally just going to 'do something/GAL' with the guy but i think i may have an agenda as well.

I don't think that agenda has anything more to it that just talking to another guy who is in a relationship that is having difficulties. I will have to be careful of what I say if we do wind up doing something. Geez, i sound nervous like I am going on a 'date' or something. A man date. Maybe I am more confused than I think i am, lol!